Well, I’m back from my final photoshoot and testimonial. It was… well:
It was the first time in my life I’ve had my make-up done professionally, soup to nuts. That was very fun, although I keep not recognizing the girl I see in the mirror. There were two make-up artists actually–one for the testimonial and one for the photoshoot. After my photoshoot, I had to wait a bit (probably about 20 minutes) before my testimonial, so I’m chilling in the dressing room when the second one comes in and touches up my lips, “just to keep you moist, dear. I’ll put the final color on when you come out, but having dry lips is so unpleasant.” Seriously? She sought me out because she was afraid I’d be uncomfortable without a fresh application of gloss? If I wasn’t so touched, I’d be amused. Then she noticed my ponytail was coming loose, and promptly whipped out tools to brush and comb my hair. I love having my hair brushed. It was divine. And she was just so nice and warm and natural about the whole thing.
Wardrobe was easy–everything I put on looked great–the only recommendations were if I could change into something with smaller straps. The stretch jeans I had left with them at the beginning photoshoot are loose on me now.
The photoshoot itself was awkward, but thankfully, they had someone that I knew there to coach me. “Suck in from a point three inches below your belly button, now exhale, squeeze, crunch, and big laugh, Maria–HA! HA! HA!” He laughed more than I did, and we repeated the sequence dozens of times. At various points I felt silly and amused. If it hadn’t been before 8am, and if I had eaten breakfast, it would have been a lot of fun. I noticed that I accept compliments about my body almost offhandedly now, as if people are only stating the obvious. (Well? They are.) They were fixing the lighting at one point because, “the body is perfect, but her face is hot,” and the guy coaching me looked over to catch my eye and smile. He may have winked.
The testimonial was where it got weird. I definitely told my story (which is the same story I’ve told here: being faster, stronger, and more fit), but I got the impression it wasn’t the story they wanted to hear. They kept asking leading questions about my “old” body vs. my “new” body, but I could only tell them the truth: my old body was great, and my new body is great. I have a different body now, I’m faster, leaner, stronger, but it’s the same body, and it’s just as fabulous as always.
I wish I could have better said what I meant. Which is that programs like this are worth doing because they give you a chance to learn what you’re made of. It’s a chance to challenge yourself, push the limits, and step outside comfort zones. As the outside of my body changed and I dropped fat and gained lean muscle, something inside me was changing too. I dropped unnecessary habits and put on courage, discipline, and determination.
I’m really proud of what I’ve done. I’m really proud of this body. Not because 90 days ago something was wrong. (Even if it was, who cares? That was 90 days ago.) But because right now, something is really really right.
Unfortunately, I didn’t say that. Or if I did, I didn’t say it nearly as eloquently. When told I looked fabulous, and promptly asked about my old body, I clammed up. I was stiff and defensive, as if they were implying I only look fabulous at 16% body fat. Also, someone leaked information to the interviewers about my love life, and while it’s not a secret who I am or am not dating, it’s not a subject I’ll discuss on national television (or even here).
I felt exceptionally awkward about it at the time, but really, it’s all very laughable now. There was little me, with my face all done up, my allegedly “pantene model” hair arranged just so over my shoulders, with a microphone discretely taped to my nonexistent cleavage under my sports bra. I was standing under tons of really bright lights, looking into an even brighter one, and talking to an interviewer sitting in a director’s chair, shrouded in shadow. Behind the lights, there were at least 8-10 people in the sound room, drifting around, or standing by to straighten my belt, touch up my powder, or smooth an errant lock of hair behind my ears. Who thought it was a good idea to wear jeans, cowboy boots, and a belt buckle as big as my fist with a sports bra, anyway? I swear, I was straight out of central casting.